Life; As I see it.
Life is not that easy as you think. The idea of life changes from time to time as the person grows. When you first appear in this world, you cry for no reason. But as you grow, you cry for other people’s judgment and your own assumptions.
When you are a child, there will be nothing in your mind, just peace. You will enjoy every moment of your childhood days. And that is the reason why your childhood memories last longer and even you can picture those memories easily. As you grow, your fear and stress grow double.
The tongue can sense many tastes, just like that as the people grow, they will sense the taste of failure. Some people take it normally, but for some, it is painful. If people start to face continuous failure, life gives them the taste of hell. This is where you leave your own zone and enter into other people’s zone(Judgement zone). If you enter this zone, then you won’t be as YOU, you will start losing yourself and will believe other people’s statements as true unknowingly. You feel sympathetic to yourself and keep on thinking, “I once scored great marks and why can’t I now?”. You might also get angry towards the people who succeed, and your mind will think that they had not faced any obstacles as you face currently. Moreover, you will start thinking that your problems are the biggest of all the problems and you won’t even try to find the solution for that. And if people ask, why you are like this? or tries to give some random advice, you might reply or might not. But your thought will be like, elaborating your problem(might be small) as if it is the biggest no one ever faced. If you stay in this judgment zone, then you can never achieve, even if you have a talent or the highest IQ.
All the successful people, at least once in their lifetime would have been in this judgment zone. The thing is many people won’t even try to face their own problems. This is your life, and I don’t know why you are reacting to other people’s judgment. No one knows what will happen after death. But you know that you have a lot of time for your deathbed (just a belief). You got just 1 life, just enjoy that, do whatever you want.
Avoid the people who are demotivating you. Spend time with Nature, music, dance, or whatever you like. Enjoy every little moment of your life. Not everyone gets this life as you got.
All these days, you might have been in that zone because of some random reasons, whatever might be the reason, just forget that right this moment. If you are reading this you are too lucky, because many people have eyes but can’t read(illiterate).
Not everyone is lucky, but everyone has their own right to live in this World. Help the people, you might be the reason for them to start a new life :) If you can help, just help. The help which might seem small to you might create huge happiness for the people who need that at that right moment.
I know giving advice is easy, but just think, why you have to waste your life for no reason. Believe me, if you start living your life, your success or failure won’t create much impact. Everyone is equal and everyone is talented.
